One of the hardest parts was feeling lonely

When Abhishek, from India was diagnosed with MS his dreams of becoming a mechanical engineer were thrown into uncertainty. Everyday life became a challenge, and the emotional toll of MS brought feelings of loneliness even from those closest to him. With time Abhishek found the courage to redefine his limits and new strength in community. Find out how Abhishek went from diagnosis to acceptance and adventure.  

‘When the doctor told me I had multiple sclerosis, my whole world felt like it fell apart. I had big dreams, especially of becoming a mechanical engineer. But suddenly, everything felt uncertain and scary. I had to give up on those dreams and think about doing something else, like software instead. MS started to control my life in many ways. Even going out needed a lot of planning, especially considering things like the sun and my bladder. 

But through it all, my family was there for me. They were like strong pillars, supporting me every step of the way. Even though they were sad at first about my diagnosis, their love for me only grew stronger. My dad especially helped ease my worries about money, saying I would always have what I needed. My mom and sisters became like researchers, always looking for new treatments and hope for MS. But even with all their support, they couldn’t fully understand how MS was affecting me emotionally. While they saw the same person, I felt like MS was changing who I was inside. 

Every day felt like a battle with MS. From the stiffness in the morning to the dry throat at night, my body constantly reminded me of the struggle. It was like being in an epic story, with me as the warrior fighting against a powerful enemy. But one of the hardest parts was feeling lonely. Friends seemed to disappear, and even at work, I felt left out of things. I missed the warmth of companionship. 

But I realized I couldn’t keep ignoring the truth. I had to accept that MS was a part of my life. Instead of feeling sorry for myself, I decided to be strong. I knew I couldn’t control what happened to me, but I could control how I reacted. So, I stopped seeing myself as a victim and started seeing myself as a fighter. It’s not the challenges we face that define us, but how we face them with courage. 

I decided to do something big to raise awareness about MS. I drove all the way across India. from Chandigarh to Kerala, meeting people along the way and sharing my story. Even though it was tough with the hot weather and roadblocks, I never gave up. 

I couldn’t have done it without the help of Bipasha Gupta and the MS Society of India Delhi Chapter. They organized events and kept me connected with other MS fighters.  I also have to thank my wife, Richa. She’s been by my side through it all, showing me what true love and support mean. 

So, even though MS changed my life, I refuse to let it control me. I’ll keep fighting, spreading awareness, and living my life to the fullest, with Richa and my family beside me.’ 

Our thanks to Abhishek and the MS Society of India.